Defying sexpectations can surprise

We recently heard from Shari, the combat veteran, hog-riding mechanic. And proud of it! Some men are intimidated by her, but not her boyfriend.

"I'm not trying to emasculate anyone," Shari says. "And I'm not trying to act like a man. I'm still a woman. I'm just a woman with a toolbox."

Today, we hear from Jason and Meg:

JASON: In 1991, I was working for a petroleum company as a secretary in an engineering department. My boss and all the engineers were men.

One of the engineers said, "This isn't all you do, right?" I asked what he meant. He responded: "You're in college or you have your own business or something, don't you? You're not just a …